{"id":898,"date":"2019-04-08T02:26:37","date_gmt":"2019-04-08T07:26:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/barefootmeandering.com\/site\/?p=898"},"modified":"2019-04-08T02:33:07","modified_gmt":"2019-04-08T07:33:07","slug":"labels-whats-in-a-name","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/barefootmeandering.com\/site\/labels-whats-in-a-name\/","title":{"rendered":"Labels: What&#8217;s in a name?"},"content":{"rendered":"<blockquote><p><strong>In This Issue:<\/strong> We have a new SUBSCRIBER FREEBIE ready to download at the end of this newsletter. We also have an article about invisible disabilities. But first, you can take a look at an offer from our friends over at CTCMath.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<hr \/>\n<div align=\"left\">CTCMath\u00a0is a full curriculum which specializes in providing online video tutorials that take a multi-sensory approach to learning. Favorably reviewed in Cathy Duffy&#8217;s 102 Top Picks and The Old Schoolhouse Crew Review, the lessons are short and concise to help your student break down concepts and appreciate math in a whole new way!<\/div>\n<div align=\"left\"><\/div>\n<h4 align=\"center\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ctcmath.com\/purchase\/homeschool?tr_id=BFM\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Discount offer<\/a>\u00a0\u2013 60% off our membership prices<\/h4>\n<h4 align=\"center\">plus a bonus 6-months free!<\/h4>\n<div><\/div>\n<div align=\"left\">See our\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/barefootmeandering.com\/site\/reviews\/ctcmath\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">review of CTCMath<\/a>.<\/div>\n<hr \/>\n<h3>Labels: What&#8217;s in a name?<\/h3>\n<p align=\"left\">Aloha, y&#8217;all!<\/p>\n<div align=\"left\"><\/div>\n<p align=\"left\">In\u00a0The Four Loves, C. S. Lewis wrote, &#8220;Friendship&#8230;is born at the moment when one man says to another &#8216;What! You too? I thought that no one but myself&#8230;'&#8221; Oddly enough, realizing that someone has a disorder can happen in exactly the same way! Over the next few newsletters, I have a series lined up discussing invisible disabilities and why naming these issues&#8211;giving them A Label&#8211;can be helpful.<\/p>\n<div align=\"left\"><\/div>\n<p align=\"left\">To begin this discussion, let&#8217;s just tackle the Big One right off, shall we? I&#8217;ve seen many articles written from the perspective that certain disorders don&#8217;t exist. I&#8217;m not pointing any fingers here: I&#8217;ve been guilty of thinking this way myself! It has been the prevailing thought in some circles over the years, so it&#8217;s an easy attitude to pick up, especially for those of us who grew up in a time before these &#8220;new&#8221; disorders were recognized and named. So we think to ourselves that we all have issues, right? Normal, after all, is just an average. An individual may be better than average in one area, below average in another, and exactly average somewhere else entirely. That doesn&#8217;t mean someone has a disorder, we conclude.<\/p>\n<div align=\"left\"><\/div>\n<p align=\"left\">And maybe that child just needs more attention or more discipline. See, that&#8217;s an easy line of thought to fall into because sometimes, it&#8217;s actually true. But the existence of the\u00a0occasional\u00a0bad parenting example does not mean that disorders don&#8217;t exist, and this is where we do a serious disservice both to a child dealing with issues as well as the parent trying to help them. Neither of them deserve the additional stress of being judged for what they can&#8217;t help.<\/p>\n<div align=\"left\"><\/div>\n<p align=\"left\">So let&#8217;s look at this logically. At heart, labels are nothing more than a classification system. Yes, we can all look at many traits of the disorders that have been named in recent decades and think, &#8220;I do that sometimes.&#8221; And of course, this is true because we&#8217;re all human, and humans do human things. Go figure.<\/p>\n<div align=\"left\"><\/div>\n<p align=\"left\">But when an individual has a set of these traits that have been recognized as occurring together, and when these traits impair daily function&#8211;when their existence puts a person&#8217;s behavior or abilities outside the boundaries of what is considered normal&#8211;a person can be said to have a particular disorder. It&#8217;s really that simple, and when understood in this way, it becomes impossible to simply say, &#8220;That doesn&#8217;t really exist.&#8221;<\/p>\n<div align=\"left\"><\/div>\n<p align=\"left\">Next time, I&#8217;ll discuss some reasons why it sometimes SEEMS that we have a sudden &#8220;epidemic&#8221; of disorders.<\/p>\n<div align=\"left\"><\/div>\n<p align=\"left\">M\u0101lama pono!<\/p>\n<div align=\"left\"><\/div>\n<p align=\"left\">Kathy Jo<br \/>\nNOT an expert on disabilities, invisible or otherwise,<br \/>\nbut known to have many opinions and a newsletter<\/p>\n<h3>New Freebie: Mat Lit Aesop<\/h3>\n<h3><\/h3>\n<p>We had a lot of fun the last time we made a Mad Lit booklet, so we thought we&#8217;d try it with one of my favorites, Aesop&#8217;s fables. Learn or review basic grammar concepts while creating wacky versions of well-known and beloved fables.\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/barefootmeandering.com\/site\/subscriber-freebie-mad-lit-aesop\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Download Mad Lit: Aesop<\/a>.<\/p>\n<div><\/div>\n<p>New freebies are available for one month! We also have two permanent freebies.\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/barefootmeandering.com\/site\/subscriber-freebie-a-walk-in-the-park\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">A Walk in the Park<\/a>\u00a0discusses our homeschool philosophy, and\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/barefootmeandering.com\/site\/subscriber-free-daily-devotions-for-kids\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Daily Devotions for Kids<\/a>\u00a0includes four prayers for each day of the week to help children develop a habit of prayer.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In This Issue: We have a new SUBSCRIBER FREEBIE ready to download at the end of this newsletter. 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